I intend yes to make this long for my pain in regards to the topic is an injury understood not.
Oh yes, I'm the one whom you saw evolving. Kindly don't presume though I'm anti education, beloved. In an attempt to exemplify the double standard which a normal parent go through, I may go from 0 to 9 on the scale of satire. May be not satire in actuality; a process of peeling out the skin from you and keeping you gob smacked with the normative in our place; maybe.
Year three. Your cup cake will have a graduation on all the nursery rhymes and won the caliber on how to browse the cartoon on Youtube and would have mastered the English alphabets. If you are visiting a toddler, you naturally ask them, "Do you know Twinkle Twinkle Little Star or Chubby Cheeeeks?!! Laudation if she could make it, Ma Sha Allah! The aunties will confront the parents with a "aint she ready for KG classes" worries and "you know Mr His son joined already" terrorizing. The guest would leave the parents on insomnia.
High school he survived. The Muslim named parents are very proud of his tenth scores. They chose that school because it had a reputation- fantastic technology and kept an insist on carrying an IPad to make notes. This is normal, my child needs that, I say.
Twelfth public exams result day, none of the family sleeps. Results release at whatever hour in the clock, they are apprehensive of their pet's performance on this Dunya based exam. It is important- how will he get into a good college otherwise??!
MBBS, B-TECH and other high donation choices are kept before the child. You choose beta! This is your decision, but be careful aah??! No drinking and girls beta! They pack from home, with their phones as their best friends- excited to be free from the four walls set by their family and an extended hostel curfew. AND a loaded Visa card.
In between some time, the parents did try to teach them the Arabic letters. They stutter still- classes got discontinued because the Ustaad raised fifty bucks per month, which is completely unnecessary as I know the Mosque Committee would give him a fixed deposit anyway! Not just five or ten, FIFTY! SUBHANALLAHH!
We have taught them the pillars of Islam and Eemaan and the names of the Prophet's parents. They do pray yes, Allah will forgive our mistakes as He is Ar Rahman ur Raheem, won't He?
His first home visit was a surprise though, but I guess woh toh chalega, because this is how college kids are right? Yes, we got a little conscious to see her phone engaged at midnight but we trust her really- she needed her MUMMY for everything and she would tell if there is anything happening in her life, won't she?
Teach them Tawheed? (Raises the index finger to the sky) La Ilaaha Illallah! Khalas!
Yes, I'm usually tired when I come back from work, so TV is my relaxation plus yes we go for family movie trip once in a month. Yes we know, its haram but that's how we can find comfort right?
Mummy is on whatsapp managing business, she made a huge turn over this year and we bought an X Box ALHMADULILLAH.
....and I'm sorry, but what is Tarbiya?
Yes sir, you did by all means nurture your children to be a rightful citizen.
What you forgot was to teach them the types of Tawheed and instill in them fear of Allah so that wherever in the world they are, hearing the adhaan would encourage them to prostrate. But they didn't get the *Tarbiya from home by seeing you hurrying towards success to masjid when the Muaddin quotes "Hurry to success".
They do know the pillars of Islam and Eemaan- but their worship to Allah is a hardwork and looks more or less like an exercise routine. The Tashahhud takes time, I hope you know it, don't you?!
Makhraj errors in their recitation are much that they twist the meaning of Kalamullah. You couldn't find another FREE class for them I suppose?
But Alhamdulillah, they can read English and French novels and scored high on all attempted exams. You positive, that they have the knowledge to reply to the three questions in the grave? Oh, and I'm guessing you know WHAT they are?
Yes, sometimes your attention did focus on increasing the wealth in the locker- that you didn't get time to know Riba is Haraam and maybe took more time relaxing?
When Allah has commanded you to LEARN in Al Imran verse 18- you paid NO HEED but what excuse would you give for spoiling your family, oh Mr Daddy?
WHY didn't you spank her at the age of ten when she didn't pray and WHY didn't you tell him pornography is HARAAM when he locked the doors often?
WHY did you show your curves behan, that your daughter never knew where in the Quran is the ayah of Hijaab?!
YOU will be asked about whatever you did in this Dunya- as I'm sure that you believe in a resurrection and judgement before your Rabb on that Day when the SUN will be above your head, YES?!
Fear the day when your son want to keep a beard and your daughter wants to observe Hijaab and you discourage them DEEMING IT TO EXTREME.
O you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the Commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they are commanded.
TARBIYA:
https://abdurrahman.org/category/islam/tarbiyah-education-upbringing/
https://www.troid.ca/women/raising-children/1709-30-hadith-on-raising-children-advice-for-parents-and-educators
https://abdurrahmanorg.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/tawheed-for-children-level-1-knowing-allaah-dr-saleh-as-saleh.pdf
Oh yes, I'm the one whom you saw evolving. Kindly don't presume though I'm anti education, beloved. In an attempt to exemplify the double standard which a normal parent go through, I may go from 0 to 9 on the scale of satire. May be not satire in actuality; a process of peeling out the skin from you and keeping you gob smacked with the normative in our place; maybe.
Year one. The Umma and Uppa has gone towards Mummy - Daddy since long. (Come Idrees, he will scream Ummi wa Abi, In Sha Allah! May Allah grant us Tawfeeq).
Year three. Your cup cake will have a graduation on all the nursery rhymes and won the caliber on how to browse the cartoon on Youtube and would have mastered the English alphabets. If you are visiting a toddler, you naturally ask them, "Do you know Twinkle Twinkle Little Star or Chubby Cheeeeks?!! Laudation if she could make it, Ma Sha Allah! The aunties will confront the parents with a "aint she ready for KG classes" worries and "you know Mr His son joined already" terrorizing. The guest would leave the parents on insomnia.
High school he survived. The Muslim named parents are very proud of his tenth scores. They chose that school because it had a reputation- fantastic technology and kept an insist on carrying an IPad to make notes. This is normal, my child needs that, I say.
Twelfth public exams result day, none of the family sleeps. Results release at whatever hour in the clock, they are apprehensive of their pet's performance on this Dunya based exam. It is important- how will he get into a good college otherwise??!
MBBS, B-TECH and other high donation choices are kept before the child. You choose beta! This is your decision, but be careful aah??! No drinking and girls beta! They pack from home, with their phones as their best friends- excited to be free from the four walls set by their family and an extended hostel curfew. AND a loaded Visa card.
In between some time, the parents did try to teach them the Arabic letters. They stutter still- classes got discontinued because the Ustaad raised fifty bucks per month, which is completely unnecessary as I know the Mosque Committee would give him a fixed deposit anyway! Not just five or ten, FIFTY! SUBHANALLAHH!
We have taught them the pillars of Islam and Eemaan and the names of the Prophet's parents. They do pray yes, Allah will forgive our mistakes as He is Ar Rahman ur Raheem, won't He?
His first home visit was a surprise though, but I guess woh toh chalega, because this is how college kids are right? Yes, we got a little conscious to see her phone engaged at midnight but we trust her really- she needed her MUMMY for everything and she would tell if there is anything happening in her life, won't she?
Teach them Tawheed? (Raises the index finger to the sky) La Ilaaha Illallah! Khalas!
Yes, I'm usually tired when I come back from work, so TV is my relaxation plus yes we go for family movie trip once in a month. Yes we know, its haram but that's how we can find comfort right?
Mummy is on whatsapp managing business, she made a huge turn over this year and we bought an X Box ALHMADULILLAH.
....and I'm sorry, but what is Tarbiya?
Yes sir, you did by all means nurture your children to be a rightful citizen.
What you forgot was to teach them the types of Tawheed and instill in them fear of Allah so that wherever in the world they are, hearing the adhaan would encourage them to prostrate. But they didn't get the *Tarbiya from home by seeing you hurrying towards success to masjid when the Muaddin quotes "Hurry to success".
They do know the pillars of Islam and Eemaan- but their worship to Allah is a hardwork and looks more or less like an exercise routine. The Tashahhud takes time, I hope you know it, don't you?!
Makhraj errors in their recitation are much that they twist the meaning of Kalamullah. You couldn't find another FREE class for them I suppose?
But Alhamdulillah, they can read English and French novels and scored high on all attempted exams. You positive, that they have the knowledge to reply to the three questions in the grave? Oh, and I'm guessing you know WHAT they are?
Yes, sometimes your attention did focus on increasing the wealth in the locker- that you didn't get time to know Riba is Haraam and maybe took more time relaxing?
When Allah has commanded you to LEARN in Al Imran verse 18- you paid NO HEED but what excuse would you give for spoiling your family, oh Mr Daddy?
WHY didn't you spank her at the age of ten when she didn't pray and WHY didn't you tell him pornography is HARAAM when he locked the doors often?
WHY did you show your curves behan, that your daughter never knew where in the Quran is the ayah of Hijaab?!
YOU will be asked about whatever you did in this Dunya- as I'm sure that you believe in a resurrection and judgement before your Rabb on that Day when the SUN will be above your head, YES?!
Who is responsible for YOUR CHILD'S lack of proper Islamic Tarbiya at home??!
Fear the day when your son want to keep a beard and your daughter wants to observe Hijaab and you discourage them DEEMING IT TO EXTREME.
Muhsin Khan
O you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not, (from executing) the Commands they receive from Allah, but do that which they are commanded.
Chapter Tahreem : 6
https://abdurrahman.org/category/islam/tarbiyah-education-upbringing/
https://www.troid.ca/women/raising-children/1709-30-hadith-on-raising-children-advice-for-parents-and-educators
https://abdurrahmanorg.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/tawheed-for-children-level-1-knowing-allaah-dr-saleh-as-saleh.pdf
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